Try having your first meeting before the wedding.  This adorable couple did just that and had a great experience.  There are advantages to seeing each other before the ceremony. This works well for late day weddings. Find a beautiful spot and let your photographer stay quietly in the background. This allows for a truly authentic photojournalistic moment and creates a great memory. Added benefits…

• #1 Get all of your formals done after the private meeting and spend more time enjoying your reception.
  
• #2 Bride and Groom are less overwhelmed at the ceremony